Daryl Wizelman
Daryl Wizelman

speaker

consultant motivator

 

www.darylwizelman.com

818-876-7337

Blog: www.heartleader.com


October 2011 Newsletter

 

Daryl Wizelman
Daryl Wizelman Daryl Wizelman

Hello, 
 
Thank you for reading my newsletter for October 2011.  My desired end result from sending this newsletter to you is that you will be inspired and learn practical tools that can improve your life and your career or business.
 
Although I am sending this to you with the hope that it will improve your life, I would also like to have the opportunity to speak to your team, organization or business.   
 
My mission/purpose in life is to have a positive impact on as many lives as possible by empowering others to help themselves.
 
If you would like more information on how you can hire me to speak to your group, please email me at
daryl@wizelman.com or call me at 818-876-7337 ext. 222.

 

My book, Heart Leader, A Personal Journey to the Heart of Business and Life is now available by clicking the link below

http://www.heartleader.com/book

 

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The 3am Call

We all need someone to call at our lowest and/or weakest moment.  We need someone to call when we have a victory to celebrate or some great news to share.  This is the person or people we call at any time and know they will take our call and be happy to hear from us.  This is the person or people who will celebrate our every win and walk next to us at our darkest hour.  This is who we can make the "3am call" to. 

Nobody should suffer in silence or be alone to celebrate their achievements.  Most of us are in need of human interaction and validation that what we are going through is "normal" and worthy of the "3am call."  I know I have had my need to reach out to the people who matter most in my life at times of great joy and at times of great sadness or pain.  These are the people I call with my 3am call.

I hope that you have someone to call at 3am.

Daryl Wizelman

Spending Time is Spending Our Lives.  Viewing Time and Life Through that Lens Should Place a Much Higher Priority on How we Conduct Our Daily Business."

As many of you know I have been a student of Time and Priority Management for many years.  In fact I teach and speak on the topic frequently.  I recently read a piece on time and priority management by Dennis Vicars and I have shared some of his thoughts with you below.

To help us examine if we are spending our time effectively Vicars suggests asking yourself questions such as the following:

-Do I allow people to command my time in unproductive activities?

-Do I have to do these tasks or can I allow someone else the opportunity to grow from the experience and free me up for critical activities that I should do?

-Do I do certain activities that are consistent with my body clock so that I maximize performance while minimizing time usage?

-Do I carve out time in the day where no one is allowed to bother me unless it is a life and death situation to a child, parent, or staff person?

-Do I work on my really important stuff first or do I look for feel good checklist stuff of low priority and little value to my job?

-Do I spend my time where my greatest rate of return will be?

-Do I spend more time doing what is important as opposed to doing what I like to do?

-Do we really need to have a meeting about this?

I like the questions Vicars asks and I ask myself, am I spending my time as efficiently as possible?  Am I having fun with my time? At work, am I spending my time doing what I enjoy, what I am good at and what brings the most value to my organization?

The way we utilize our time is a series of decisions we make about opportunities that are presented to us.  We say "yes" to some and "no" to others.  Are we making the right decisions about how we use our time and with whom?

 

Daryl Wizelman

Book and Music Recommendation

Some bands make music that can move our soul and make us feel on a very deep level.  Needtobreathe is one of those bands and that is one of the reasons they are in my top 5 all-time favorites.  Their entire collection is great!  As I listen to them I am often moved to tears.  They tell stories that are relatable to our lives and the pain and struggles that life brings.  They combine grace and power and back it up with a whole lot of soul.

Needtobreathe's newest collection of music is called "The Reckoning" and was just released late last month.  I haven't stopped listening to it since I downloaded it and I recomend you do the same.  This is one of those bands where you may not get "it" on the first listen but you will get it. 

I hope you enjoy this music as much as I do.

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I have learned some of my most valuable life lessons from other people's experiences.  This book compiled by Lorne A. Adrian is a series of lessons that I found great value in reading.  I have gone back to some of lessons time and time again and have shared many of the lessons I read about in this book with others.  It is a quick read but there is a lot of great stuff here.

Enjoy the read!

Daryl Wizelman

Quotation

"I believe that the very purpose of life is to be happy.  From the core of our being, we desire contentment.  In my own limited experience I have found that the more we care for the happiness of others, the greater is our own sense of well-being.  Cultivating a close, warmhearted feeling for others automatically puts the mind at ease.  It helps remove whatever fears or insecurities we may have and gives us the strength to cope with any obstacles we encounter.  It is the principal source of success in life.  Since we are not solely material creatures, it is a mistake to place all of our hopes for happiness on external development alone.  The key is to develop the inner peace."

          -Dalai Lama

Daryl Wizelman

A Closing Note

Thank you for reading this month's newsletter.  I hope you are able to use some of the content to improve your life and/or your career.  If there is an opportunity for me to speak at an upcoming conference or meeting, please let me know.
 
If you like what you see, please feel free to review my web site at
www.darylwizelman.com.  I speak on leadership, work/life balance, strategic initiatives, emotional intelligence and life planning among other topics that can be viewed on my web site.  I believe I can inspire your group and provide them with excellent practical tools to improve their career and their life.
 
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Again, thank you for your interest.
 
Daryl

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