Daryl Wizelman
Daryl Wizelman

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August 2010 Newsletter

Daryl Wizelman
Daryl Wizelman Daryl Wizelman

Hello, 
 
Thank you for reading my newsletter for August 2010.  My desired end result from sending this newsletter to you is that you will be inspired and learn practical tools that can improve your life and your career or business.
 
Although I am sending this to you with the hope that it will improve your life, I would also like to have the opportunity to speak to your team, organization or business.   
 
My mission/purpose in life is to have a positive impact on as many lives as possible by empowering others to help themselves.
 
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I Wish You Enough

My friend and Executive Assistant, Monica Pincus, gave this to me.  I thought it was a good time to share it.

I Wish You Enough!

Recently I overheard a father and daughter in their last moments together at the airport.  They had announced the departure.

Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the father said, "I love you, and I wish you enough."

The daughter replied, "Dad, our life together has been more than enough.  Your love is all I ever needed.  I wish you enough, too, Dad."

They kissed and the daughter left.  The father walked over to the window where I was seated.  Standing there I could see he wanted and needed to cry.  I tried not to intrude on his privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking, "did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?"

"Yes, I have," I replied.  "Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?"

"I am old, and she lives so far away.  I have challenges ahead and the reality is, the next trip back will be for my funeral," he said.

"When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, "I wish you enough."  "May I ask you what that means?"

He began to smile.  "That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations.  My parents used to say it to everyone..."  He paused for a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail, and he smiled even more.  "When we said, I wish you enough; we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them."  Then turning toward me, he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory.

"I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear."

"I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more."

"I wish you enough pain so even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger."

"I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.  I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess."

"I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye."

He began to cry and walked away.

Daryl Wizelman

MBO's and The Chores Chart

When I was a kid my mother created a monthly chores chart for my brothers and me.  The chart included tasks like taking out the garbage, doing laundry, dusting the furniture, washing the dishes after dinner and cleaning our rooms.  The chart assigned different tasks to different kids (my two brothers and I) on different days throughout the month.  If the tasks were completed to my mom's expectations for the week, we were given an allowance.

As kids we called these tasks chores.  As an adult in the business world we refer to these chores as MBO's or management by objectives. MBO's were first introduced by Peter Drucker in his book The Practice of ManagementThe essence of MBO's is participative goal setting, choosing course of actions and decision making. An important part of the MBO is the measurement and the comparison of the employee’s actual performance with the standards set. Ideally, when employees themselves have been involved with the goal setting and choosing the course of action to be followed by them, they are more likely to fulfill their responsibilities.

I like to attach a bonus for each component completed correctly and on-time.

For example, if we have a manager who is leading a project the parts of the MBO may include;

1. Writing a request for proposal (RFP).  This is worth 25% of the MBO bonus and must be completed within 30 days.

2. Choosing three vendors to bid the job (what they are going to do, by when and how much it will cost). This is worth 15% of the MBO bonus and must be completed within 30 days of the RFP being sent to the potential vendors with a hard date on when the vendors must submit their proposals.

3. Deciding which vendor to work with on the project.  This is worth 10% and must be completed 10 days after the hard date for proposal submission.

4. Managing the project from start to finish.  This is worth 50% and it is tied to a specific project time line, budget and quality of work.

Advice for working with MBO's

1. Get buy in from the employee leading the MBO.  Do they possess the desire and ability to lead the MBO?

2. Allow the employee leading the MBO to be a part of the time line, budget and how much each component of the MBO is worth.

3. Offer your help to the leader of the MBO often and without penalty.  Help them as much as they want to be helped.

4. If they don't know how to accomplish part of the MBO, follow the following 4 step training plan;

     a. Tell the employee how to accomplish the task.

     b. Show the employee how to accomplish the task.

     c. Observe the employee performing the task.

     d. Praise the employee on where they did well and redirect them on where they need to improve.

NOTE:  This 4 step teaching method works great with parents teaching children as well as in the work place.

 

 

Daryl Wizelman

Book and Music Recommendation

 

A classic since its publication in 1954, The Practice of Management was the first book to look at management as a whole and being a manager as a separate responsibility. The Practice of Management created the discipline of modern management practices. Readable, fundamental, and basic, it remains an essential book for students, aspiring managers, and seasoned professionals.

Peter Drucker is a management guru who has written a lot of very valuable material about business and management.  This book is an oldie but a goodie.

A few quotes about Drucker;

"The world knows he was the greatest management thinker of the last century," Jack Welch, former chairman of General Electric Co.


"He was the creator and inventor of modern management," said management guru Tom Peters. "In the early 1950s, nobody had a tool kit to manage these incredibly complex organizations that had gone out of control. Drucker was the first person to give us a handbook for that."

Intel Corp. (INTC ) co-founder Andrew S. Grove: "Like many philosophers, he spoke in plain language that resonated with ordinary managers. Consequently, simple statements from him have influenced untold numbers of daily actions; they did mine over decades."

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I have been listening to the debut CD from the Irish indie band The Script.  Their soulful, emotional songwriting recalls the lyrical storytelling of Irish greats such as Christy Moore and U2, but with a strictly ultramodern aesthetic that coats the songs in glittering production values.  I am loving the CD and recommending it highly.

Daryl Wizelman

Quotation

My friend Elad Goren gave this to me.

"This is the beginning of a new day.  God has given me this day to use as I will.  I can waste it or use it for good.  What I do is very important because I am exchanging a day of my life for it.  When tomorrow comes, this day will be gone forever leaving something in its place I have traded for it.  I want it to be a gain, not a loss - good, not evil.  Success, not failure in order that I shall not foresee the price I paid for it."

This quote was kept in the wallet of legendary football coach Paul "Bear" Bryant.

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A Closing Note

Thank you for reading this month's newsletter.  I hope you are able to use some of the content to improve your life and/or your career.  If there is an opportunity for me to speak at an upcoming conference or meeting, please let me know.
 
If you like what you see, please feel free to review my web site at
www.darylwizelman.com.  I speak on leadership, work/life balance, strategic initiatives, emotional intelligence and life planning among other topics that can be viewed on my web site.  I believe I can inspire your group and provide them with excellent practical tools to improve their career and their life.
 
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Daryl

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