Daryl Wizelman
Daryl Wizelman

speaker

consultant motivator

www.darylwizelman.com

818-876-7337

Blog: www.heartleader.com


June 2010 Newsletter

Daryl Wizelman
Daryl Wizelman Daryl Wizelman

Hello, 
 
Thank you for reading my newsletter for June 2010.  My desired end result from sending this newsletter to you is that you will be inspired and learn practical tools that can improve your life and your career or business.
 
Although I am sending this to you with the hope that it will improve your life, I would also like to have the opportunity to speak to your team, organization or business.   
 
My mission/purpose in life is to have a positive impact on as many lives as possible by empowering others to help themselves.
 
If you would like more information on how you can hire me to speak to your group, please email me at
daryl@wizelman.com or call me at 818-876-7337 ext. 222.

My book, Heart Leader, A Personal Journey to the Heart of Business and Life is now available by clicking the link below

http://www.heartleader.com/book

 

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Bank Account

A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o'clock, shaved perfectly with his hair fashionably combed and though he is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today.

His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.  After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.

As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on his window.

"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy.

Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; "just wait that doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.

"Happiness is something you decide ahead of time.  Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged...it's how I arrange my mind.  I already decided to love it."  "It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up."

"I have a choice;"

"I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do

This was sent to me by good friend Jim Miller.

Daryl Wizelman

Stop Yelling, Say Thank You and Put Down that iPhone

My friend Maggie Barnett sent me a blog post from Peter Madden at Small Agency Diary.  Peter listed 20 lessons about ownership/leadership that I thought were great.

1. Realize what you're great at and do it all of the time.  Realize what you suck at and stop doing it completely (and put the right person in place to do it).

2. If you want to make a point that sticks, stop yelling. (Or keep yelling and look ridiculous).

3. Work as hard on your presentations to your staff as you do on your presentations to prospects and clients.

4. Tell your clients when you screw up and how something could have been better.  They already know you blew it, but they just want to hear it from you.

5. Trust your instincts.  You can interview a prospective employee or client 10 times, they can say and do all the right things, but if your Spidey (Spiderman) sense is tingling, something is amiss.

6. Read Keith Ferrazzi's Never Eat Alone and stop handing out your business card like a Vegas dealer.

7. One out of every 10 consultants will actually be a help to you.  Finding that one is the toughest part.  The right one probably asks all the questions you hate.

8. Do pro bono work for non-profit organizations that are trying hard to make the world a better place.  You'll get more out of it.

9. Don't obsess about the financials (I can hear a million Wharton grads groan).  You'll get lost in them and forget what the hell your agency stands for in the first place.  When I think about my score in golf, I completely tank.  I apply that to everything.

10. Are you completely freaking out, nervous, worried and losing sleep over something about your business?  Welcome to being alive.  Now calm down, move on, and step up your game.

11. Call the head of an agency you compete with and invite him/her out for a beer.  You'll either a) really enjoy the person and learn a lot or b) hate him and enjoy crushing him in defeat.

12. Regarding No. 11, 99% of the time it will be "a." You'll talk about your family more than the work and it will become a regular thing.

13. You aren't thanking people who work for you enough.

14. Did someone working for you just disagree with a decision you want to make?  Good.  Keep her around as long as possible.

15. RFP's are a complete waste of time.  But it's still fun to compete.

16. Throw parties at your office, no matter how humble or grand the space, for no reason at all.  It's all about the people in the room, good music, and not running out of booze or ice.

17. Put your Blackberry/iPhone away when you're meeting with me.

18. One personal five-minute call equals 12 impersonal emails back and forth.  You also get to know someone much better that way.

19. Call the business people you respect the most in your community.  Buy them lunch and seek their advice.  Sometimes the bigger the individual, the more generous they are with their time and advice.  One good mentor is equal to 100 consultants.

20. Write personal notes thanking people you meet with and who are in your life.  Besides death and taxes, the only other sure thing in life is that no matter who you are, it's exciting to get a handwritten note.

Daryl Wizelman

Book and Music Recommendation

I am excited to announce the release of my book Heart Leader.  It is a compelling, instructional and moving story providing a playbook of guidance, growth and solutions for businesses and individuals.

Combining inspirational stories and valuable lessons learned from 20 years of business leadership, Heart Leader contains numerous practical tools that can be immediately implemented by readers to improve their careers, businesses, relationships and lives.

My personal journey, recollected in the book, is a roller-coaster of success, failure, joy and pain and I believe my story will serve as an inspiration for my readers.

Heart Leader includes a lesson at the end of each chapter so that readers can become Heart Leaders in their own lives and careers.  From having a Life Plan to putting people over profits, these 16 examples of how to live will increase the reader's chances at long-term success and an extraordinary life.

If you would like to order a copy of Heart Leader please click the link below.  

http://www.heartleader.com/book

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I have been a longtime fan of Counting Crows.  I like the smart lyrics, great song writing and the passion and power of the songs.  Every one of their CD's has been consistent and inspiring!  Lately I have been listening to August and Everything After which was released in 1993.  It is a CD with one great song after another.  I highly recommend this CD and all of Counting Crows music.

Daryl Wizelman

Quotation

President Thomas Jefferson is credited with many well-known sayings, but one that strikes me every time I read or hear it is,

"How much pain never-occurred evils costs us."

This is 18th Century lingo for, "We worry about a ton of stuff that never happens."

Daryl Wizelman

A Closing Note

Thank you for reading this month's newsletter.  I hope you are able to use some of the content to improve your life and/or your career.  If there is an opportunity for me to speak at an upcoming conference or meeting, please let me know.
 
If you like what you see, please feel free to review my web site at
www.darylwizelman.com.  I speak on leadership, work/life balance, strategic initiatives, emotional intelligence and life planning among other topics that can be viewed on my web site.  I believe I can inspire your group and provide them with excellent practical tools to improve their career and their life.
 
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Again, thank you for your interest.
 
Daryl

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